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We
often define ourselves by our work but, in truth, our families and
the people we love are the real engine and soul of our lives. This
past February, while my union was in the midst of state worker negotiations
and we were working nearly around the clock, my mother had a stroke
that took her sight.
It
was the night before her 71st birthday. Up until that night, my
mom had worked crazy long hours at a Willingboro day care center
taking care of others' children.
She'd
been caring for little kids for more than thirty years at that center
and she just loved it. Too suddenly, everything changed. And now
we, her children, would now be taking care of her.
I
spent the long drive to the Emergency Room that night with my heart
in my throat worrying about my mom, thinking about how much family
means and about how often it is the tipping point for crisis. Our
parents, daughters, sons, spouses and partners are the marrow of
the bones of our lives.
Lucky
for us, my mom survived. She already lived with my sister and her
family and we would all juggle her care. But far too many New Jerseyans
are just a moment away from the financial disaster brought on by
a partner's cancer diagnosis, a parent's stroke or a child's complicated
birth. Many of us are part of the so-called "sandwich generation"
delicately balancing our increasing workload with caring simultaneously
for our children and our aging parents.
We
need a safety net but New Jersey doesn't give us one. Far too few
employers provide paid time to care for sick family members or for
newborns and adopted children and currently the only leave most
workers are entitled to is unpaid. And that's why people don't take
it.
Family leave insurance legislation (S-2249 and A-3812) currently
pending in the legislature would provide 10 weeks of paid leave
at two-thirds of weekly salary with a maximum payment of $488 per
week. Most notable is that the leave would be completely financed
by a worker-only contribution and would cost someone about 92 cents
a week.
As
a state, we've recognized that workers get injured and need support
and have entitled our citizens to Temporary Disability insurance
payments for up to six months when that occurs. The family leave
legislation simply expands that program by a 0.01 percent increase
in worker's TDI. A broad coalition of labor, community, senior and
health care groups support it. Governor Corzine and many legislators
on both sides of the aisle have openly supported the legislation
and are pushing for its enactment.
So,
if NJ's family leave insurance is worker paid and people need to
take it, why is the business community and its primary lobbyist,
the Business and Industry Association (BIA) trying to kill the bill?
The business lobby has been fighting the concept of paid family
leave for more than a decade. Earlier, BIA asked businesses to send
legislators real keys (as in, if you pass paid family leave, you
may as well take the keys to our businesses).
That's
just ridiculous. Currently, they are organizing an all-out campaign,
including scaring legislators with bad information about what the
program really means. The business lobby is fighting hard because
they know what we know. That most working people (80%) who need
to take family leave don't--because they can't afford to. And they
would if they could.
The
business lobby's opposition to the bill isn't about money, since
it won't cost businesses one penny more. It's about control of the
workforce and limiting worker flexibility. And it's wrong.
Family
leave insurance will give NJ working people the freedom to care
for their family and still keep their job...and not go broke. Other
states, namely California and Washington, have already passed paid
family leave. Governor Spitzer has a paid family leave plan in the
works for New York right now, which even covers foster parents and
workers who take off to care for grandchildren.
Many
of us are haunted by one moment in time that someone dear to us
was hurting and we could not be there with them or by memories of
the day we left a tiny child with caregivers and went back to work
far too soon. We no longer live in the 1950's "Ozzie and Harriet"
family. We are all working and we're working longer. Our state's
policy on paid family leave needs to catch up to that reality and
the time is right to do it now.
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